Heaven or Hell?

Ponder this….if you are suffering, you are responsible for it. If you are blissful, you are responsible for it. We create our own heaven or our own hell. We can decide at any moment how we are experiencing our lives. We can keep ourselves caged or set ourselves free. We have free will and choice. Yes, I know…there’s always that “BUT”. I can hear your words now…”but you don’t know what I’ve been through”. No, I don’t. What I know is you can continue to sit in a pile of shit or you can get up, clean up and embrace life with zeal.

You may not be the origin of your problems but, best believe, you are the origin of the solution. In this life, if you really want to fully embrace your human experience, you’ve got to stop the whining, stop the complaining, and the “poor me” mentality. You are exhausting yourself with the limiting beliefs and inner critic bullshit. Knock it off. Is this really how you want to spend your life? Or do you want to fully embody love and joy and silliness? If I set both options before you, which one would you choose? I know which one. So, ask yourself, why aren’t you? You OWN your thoughts. So think thoughts that fill you up with gusto and confidence.

Try this exercise today….be a witness to your thoughts. Go ahead, think your thoughts. And start to fully grasp the weight of the words you tell yourself. Write them down. Are you hearing things like “I’m not good enough”, “No one wants me”, or “Why bother? I’m just going to get told “no”? These are the LIMITING BELIEFS that you are choosing to think. Once you’ve had enough of writing them down, I want you to look in the mirror and say them out loud. I want you to imagine you are saying them to your 12 year old self. Gah, how painful is this? And this is where the work begins. NOW, I want you to take every phrase and I want you to spin it to something positive and uplifting.

“I’m not good enough” becomes “I am so much and worthy of good things”. “No one wants me” becomes “I am whole”. “Why bother? I’m just going to get told “no” becomes “If I don’t ask, I’ll never know. Don’t ask, don’t get. Ask and I just might move in the direction of my goal!” Try it. You’ll feel the difference.

THIS IS YOUR ONE LIFE! Choose how you want to experience it. All that power is within YOU. It’s yours, my dear one.

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